PARTIES ARE LIKE RELATIONSHIPS!!!

You always want to have that one cool party at your place. Cool party = right people, right music, right talks, right food and space... It is fun, till it goes on. You enjoy, have good time, wish it could go on forever, loose sense of time and rest of the world does not exist.

And then the endings.... people leave, coz they had to... and all you are left with is some crumbs, empty bottles, smoke n ash and lots of mess. And silence n loneliness... You keep it all for some time, like leave it just the way it is. But eventually, you know you have to let go of the leftovers. So you start picking the pieces, each one a reminder of something from the previous night. Put everything, that's nothing now, into the trash can and clean the floor, the walls, the air. When you go back and check, if its all clear, you'll see that some spots are still left. Scrub.. they wont go away. Then you just leave them to fade with time. The entire process drains you out and at few vague moments you even feel, you shouldn't have taken so much trouble for making it work. After all, it had to end.

 

When u finally crash on ur couch, a feeling of blankness envelops u; the whirling sound of fan is loud n disturbing.. u want to go back to sleep, but the head wont stop hurting; the vacant seats gape at you, empty walls mock at you... and with all of this u close ur eyes and go back to continue living....

And then He made Women! - MEENA

Why do men complain they don't understand women? I mean we all know the millions of jokes that are floating around on the net, in conversations, in joke books and in our minds when it comes to women - they way they talk, walk, drive, plan, on of course, shop!

But ask a women and she'll tell you how really simple the woman's world is!! Ten rules in our rulebook (there are a hundred others, but don't want to scare you....)

1. We love to love - we are smitten by the feeling of love... and not just for the children and the man (or men - what the heck!!) in our lives. It also extends to the little stray pup in the neighbourhood, and the characters out of a good tearjerker! So please don't laugh at our feelings of love!

2. We are perfectly capable of doing 1o different things at the same time. We mange to do household chores while on the phone, or on the T.V. We manage to plan the route to the local grocers to include the letter drop off, the electricity bills, the social visit to the old aunt, the school pick up of the kids and the hairstylist....... Remember the joke about the shortest route to the shop and back? This is the reason why!! The men in our lives - please understand, we have a microchip in our brains that help us program all this, and so don't EVER repeat that joke again!

3. We have a memory chip in our brains - especially where events, words, dates and fights are concerned. And when all of these combine together, the memory is burned into the chip - and will surface at regular intervals - 50 years later too!! Tough luck! You can help by writing stuff down in your diaries so that we hit the same page, and we don't have to clarify "when did I ever say that?"

4. We like - no - love the right words. So even if you don't mean it, please use them sometimes. We know you don't mean any of it, but it just helps remind us who you conned us into believing you were!! And helps us remain in love with you (refer point number one!!)

5. We understand colors, weather, and moods a few shades better than the dictionary. Actually, we insisted on putting up the colors that exist there already. The reason again, is the little chip called 'intuition' that causes this disconnect from normal mortals. Please learn to appreciate this gift, or at least not ridicule it! ( After all, we don't ridicule the time machine in your head that makes you a 6 year old every time you see a cricket match!)

6. We care what you think, and what the neighbors think, and what the lady at the bookstore thinks... which means we are careful dressers and match our accessories for the trip to the local bank. Again it is worth your while to remember that these were the very traits that made you think we are perfect.... so please learn to live with it!

7. We have a huge friends circle, and we love to keep expanding it. We have acquaintances from work, the neighborhood, the kids' school, the sweet lady we met in the train, and of course our friends from school still meeting up once in a while! At least remember a few of the names!!

8. Many of us are not good with navigation, but then, we do know which ice cream flavor YOUR great aunt loves.... so we are even!!

9. We love the kids as much as you do, rest assured. Someone has to scream at them for the general good of all mankind - so why not let us do the dirty job in peace?

10. We take up jobs which no one wants - make the 'caves' beautiful, make the kids beautiful, play the politically correct relative, remember the occasions AND be the ones calling up to wish occasions, meeting the kids' teachers when we KNOW we are going to be appalled at what we will definitely hear from them .................. can you blame us for wanting a little pat on the back (would be better if it was a nice rub on the back, with lavender oil... but nonetheless ...... ) once in a while??

Is it all in the SKIN COLOR? – BLINGET PAULO

Ms.Asiya, a dear friend of mine, represents the young, sensible and educated working woman of modern India. She is smart, talented,bubbly with an amazing personality to die for. Yet she was rejected recently because of her dark skin. It was as arranged marriage affair which is very common in India. A graduate in English literature with an MBA in human resources, this girl can create magic when out with friends and family. Her presence creates a very positive and happy environment. I was just hooked to her the first time I met her which has now blossomed into great friendship.

 

Though rejection didn't affect her much, I wonder why marriage has to be so color-oriented?!?! Is beauty the ultimate thing a man really wants?! Doesn't education, confidence,good behavior and above all a person with a good heart matter at all?? A few years ago, there was a huge ruckus about Shilpa Shetty, an Indian actress, being discriminated by other contestants due to her race and Color in the hit reality show Big Brother, and all Indians were up for it. Forget about foreign countries, but what about the discrimination that takes place within the country itself?!? Is it fair then to go out and blame others that lies within the country itself?!?!

 

Beauty Lies within, it doesn't matter how you look, what color or caste you belong to. Truly, what a Shame?! Asiya is a wonderful girl and I'm proud of her!

LOVE vs SEX – RADHA ARYA

Today I got a sms which says-

 

"Boys do love to get sex & girls do sex to get love".

 

Firstly being a girl I thought how true this is.

Then I thought is it really true. Girls only want luv & not sex.

 

Sex which is the immensely beautiful part of luv,wch whn U do after breaking all othr bonds & on releasing Urself into ur beloved arms & finally whn U exchange Ur soul with Ur soul mate..U build ur own strong bond of luv, whr u feel safe,aapko milti h khushi, sukun, aapko ek nai duniya may le jaati h jo JANNAT si khoobsurat lagti h.

So if its so beautiful thn Y we discriminate love good & sex bad in respect of GENDER & Y girl hide her feeling of sex?

 

If boys show 1st their feelings to hv sex is taken as right ritual & if girls do same 1st or if she just put her views on sex, than she is loose character girl..There we women stop showing our feelings to have sex untill our man convince us..jst to show tht we dnt hv any negetive character.

FEELINGS got no GENDER. .&

Love is incomplete without sex..and to complete it women's feelings r equally important..So I think both Gender want love to get sex & ultimately to get eternal love. .